Sunday, August 7, 2011

Sunday Soundcheck: The Problem Is All Inside Your Head

I started listening to Paul Simon in high school. My mother bought an album of his called "Rhythm of the Saints" and proceeded to play "The Obvious Child" ad nauseum for weeks—I must admit that intense drum opening in the beginning is what got me hooked on it as well. 

It was shortly after that introduction that she alerted me to how many other songs of Simon's I adored—"You Can Call Me Al" was already a favorite and "Sounds of Silence" had been another (although it was made when he was with Art Garfunkel)—which made me dive into his catalog to see what else I was missing!

That was 20+ years ago and I am still listening to Paul Simon today.

The thing I enjoy about Simon's music is the fact that is has so many layers, thanks in large part to his use of so many different instruments. The guy will use anything from a tambourine to a flute in getting his lyrical point across, and the simplicity of his voice is a great contrast to all the soundbox he sets loose in your head.

So, this week, I am offering up two Paul Simon songs that have always got me going. If you read the title, you can probably already guess one of them :) Enjoy!

"50 Ways To Leave Your Lover" from Still Crazy After All These Years (1975)



"The Obvious Child" from The Rhythm of the Saints (1990)


Wednesday, August 3, 2011

REPOST: Take This Life and Live It

Sometimes it's hard to imagine a time when your life will no longer be relevant, however, two things that are quite certain about this life is that it has a beginning and an end.

The people we meet, the relationships we build with those people along the way, and the choices we make within the time we have here are what will help to shape our experience.

We will become a collection of the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of life, and the only thing any of us can ever hope for is the opportunity to live the best life possible—to be happy.

Despite what anyone might tell you, there isn't a prescription for happiness. Each individual will approach his/her life differently and therefore will find happiness in a much different way they you or I. Where one person might choose to fill their life with friendships and personal connections, another might find the same fulfillment in discovering all they can about the world—cherishing the discovery process.

In truth, the "how" doesn't matter. What matters is that you take the journey.

Our time upon this earth is undetermined and no one can be certain when the time to leave this life will come.

Treat each day as a blessing, collect each moment as if it were a ray of sunshine, and use those rays to illuminate the spirit within you, and never let that spirit be dimmed by any one or anything.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Living Fit Is A Step-By-Step Process

Ten years ago, I thought nothing of hitting up a fast food restaurant to fill the needs of my hungering body. In fact, the only thing I truly considered when selecting an eating establishment was whether or not they served good fries and burgers. The calories and fat content within the foods I was eating was irrelevant to me because I felt like exercising as I did at that time gave me the license to eat pretty much whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted.

I lived that way until about 18-months ago when I saw "Food Inc." Yes, that's correct, the catalyst for my change was gleaned from a controversial documentary on the American food industry.

Now, before you start believing that I live my life under the influence of external factors, understand that I always do my own research (as should any intelligent individual, "Food Inc." didn't offer the final word on my decision to change my lifestyle dramatically, it merely offered a jumping off point.

My personal attention to the information that fell into my hands daily (i.e. nutritional labels, news reports, and focused literature addressing concerns on obesity—particularly amongst children) helped seal the deal. Once I truly started paying attention to the information on what I was eating, and what I was giving to my family, it became difficult to look away from the facts.

I knew I needed to start being more aware of food choices not only for myself, but for my children as well. That said, however, where my children would be easier to mold in the way of this life I have chosen (I am mostly vegetarian by this point), my husband is still not willing to give up his meat eating ways, and I am okay with that decision.

Quite honestly, philosophically, I am not opposed to eating meat. I just find that my body operates in a more efficient way with less meat in my diet. By no means do I enforce that rule upon either my husband or my children. What I do is offer them options that are still healthy, but that do not interfere with their desire to still eat the foods they love.

Despite what some who are strictly vegan/vegetarian will tell you, there are plenty of ways to live healthily while still eating meat. 

For my part, I have lessened the occurrence of meals served using red meat or pork as I have found that ground turkey is a fine substitute for many dishes. As far as red meat goes, if I do use it, I stick to the leanest cuts I can find.

Other changes I've found easy to make are swapping almond milk for cows milk, vegan butter for regular butter, and whole grain flour for white. As a rule, no pastas or breads are purchased if they are not of the whole grain variety, and sodas are a no-no for either one of my children.

The changes I've made have been incremental, but they stick because they aren't too intrusive. I've found that as long as the food tastes good, few complain.

My point here is that any decision to live healthily is as much about being aware of what your body  takes in for fuel as you are about keeping that body fit. You would never put diesel fuel into a gas operated vehicle, right? Of course not. Our bodies, in my opinion, use that same principle.

Use the fuel that maximizes what you want your body to do—whether you love weight training, running or aerobics—because, at the end of the day, you only get out what you put in.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Blogging Mantra: I Write, Therefore I Am

"100s of Bloggers would spend 1000 of hours to be famous and millionaire, but not even one hour which would make their blog a million dollar worth."-Divya Uttam
Maintaining a blog isn't easy, don't ever let anyone tell you differently. It's a difficult task to generate fresh ideas, about engaging topics, on a daily basis.

However, in the three years I've been consistently maintaining a blog, I've managed to learn one very important lesson about what it takes to not give up on the venture altogether, want to know what that something is? Okay...here goes...read carefully...it's...called...patience.

The reason many of us in the blogosphere often abandon our sites and stop blogging altogether is because we often come into the process for the wrong reasons. We approach it with dollar signs and dreams of retiring to Bora Bora from all the ad revenue we are sure to make from writing grandiose articles about topics no other blogger has ever broached with the same amount of class or ingenuity.

Listen, there are thousands of bloggers out there with a lot more time, resources, and money than many of us low bandwidth folks will ever be able to dole out on our freely hosted sites. So, when making the decision to start/maintain a blog, I only offer two pieces of true advice: be patient with the process and go easy on yourself.

If you go a few days without writing a post, don't beat yourself up too bad, because while posting often is ideal, most of us have lives.

It's unfair to think that your obligation to your readers is more important than that of a loved one who is depending on you daily. Even more, a blog isn't supposed to feel like work unless you're getting paid a salary to do it, so it's better to wait for inspiration than publish insignificant fluff.

Be the genuine you that you want the world to know, and approach each post from a point of sincerity.  Yes, it's that easy.

Most importantly, though, never forget to lend a helping hand to fellow bloggers whose sites you've come to appreciate by dropping them a mention or two every once and a while. For instance, I try to sneak in my beautiful friend Ally's blog, Copacetic in Carolina, whenever I can because I think she's doing a brilliant job plus, she's always kind enough to check in on my sites regularly, and leave a kind and thoughtful word on many of the posts I write. In short, she's pretty amazing, and if you're not checking her out, you're missing out. Trust me.

Or, how about you take a peek at what my little brother Adam is doing at Comedic Revival. He's new to this whole blogging thing, but he's doing a fine job so far.

And if I'm ever trying to find ideas on how to eat cheap, healthy and good, I know exactly where to go for all that and then some, but if that's not enough,  The Daily Garnish is a must-click for all of my vegetarian-minded readers.

See how easy those shout-outs were? We bloggers have to stick together you know.